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The Martian Child: A Novel About A Single Father Adopting A Son Customer Reviews
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I adopted a little girl who was the same age as the boy in the book almost two years ago. I really "needed" this book right now! The challenges I have faced are similar in more ways than they are different, and they have been on an upward cycle recently. This book provided me with emotional support for my frustration.
As far my experience -- and I cannot speak for anyone else's -- this was a very accurate portrayal of the nature of the challenges one faces adopting an older child, especially one who has been through multiple placements and has learned not to trust adults. People think that a ton of love, support and concern will "fix" everything, but it is not so simple. I am sure that there are some relatively smooth older child adoptions but, as a general rule, it is not for the fainthearted.
Yes, this book is from the adoptive parent's point of view, and not the child's. However, as an adoptive parent, it is refreshing to hear this story from the parent's perspective and to know that I am neither crazy nor alone. The author does not attempt to portray himself as the "perfect parent" but honestly discusses the emotional toll one goes through as one attempts to forge a strong bond with a child that you love with all your heart but that pushes back at every turn. |
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