Here's my theory: Many spouses instinctively sense, perhaps even subconsciously, when their mates are cheating. Yet they buy the excuses, deny the telltale signs and pretend that all is normal. Or they think, "What I don't know can't hurt me" or "Cheat, just don't tell me."
That is why I'd caution those who purchase this book to be sure they , really want to know if their spouse is being unfaithful. If you would be shocked to discover he is cheating, you aren't ready to know. If you aren't prepared to really deal with the truth, good or bad, you aren't ready.
This may seem crazy but there are couples who are willing to put up with cheating as long as it isn't blatant and they aren't told about it. It is the "I don't want to know" mindset or perhaps the "If I don't know, I don't care". They suspect, but they don't want the truth.
If you DO care, then this book will help you do some detective work and look for signs of unfaithfulness. Written by a private eye, you are given tips and tricks that could save you the trouble of hiring someone. Just be sure you know what you'll do after that! |